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\u00d6zel \u00dcmit Hastanesi Uzman Psikolo\u011fu Seda G\u00fcn Namal, \u00e7ocu\u011fun geli\u015fiminde ya\u015f\u0131na g\u00f6re verilen sorumluluklar\u0131n okul d\u00f6neminde de kendisine fayda sa\u011flayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirtti.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n okula uyum s\u00fcreci hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fan Uzman Psikolog Seda G\u00fcn Namal, ailelerin de bu s\u00fcrece haz\u0131r olmalar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemine de\u011findi. Namal, \u201c\u00c7ocu\u011fun okula uyum s\u00fcreci, ailenin okula bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 ve \u00e7ocu\u011fa hissettirdikleri ile \u00e7o\u011funlukla do\u011fru orant\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. Bununla birlikte nas\u0131l bir ebeveyn rol\u00fc \u00fcstlendi\u011fimiz de \u00e7ocu\u011fun okula ba\u015flama s\u00fcrecini etkiliyor. Koruyucu ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ba\u011flanamayan ebeveynler, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 b\u0131rakacaklar\u0131 zaman\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcklerinde gerilim ya\u015f\u0131yorlar. Bu s\u00fcrede \u00e7ocu\u011fa destek olmay\u0131 aksat\u0131yor olabiliyorlar. \u00c7ocu\u011fun da kayg\u0131l\u0131 ve ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 olmas\u0131 ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz bir hale geliyor\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
\u201c\u00c7ocu\u011fun okul s\u00fcrecinde onu neler bekledi\u011fi net ifadelerle payla\u015f\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r\u201d diyen Namal, ailelere \u015fu \u00f6nerilerde bulundu:<\/p>\n
\u201cOkula haz\u0131rl\u0131k s\u00fcrecinde al\u0131\u015fveri\u015fe \u00e7ocuklarla birlikte \u00e7\u0131k\u0131lmal\u0131 ve mutlaka okula giri\u015f ve \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015fta belli saatlerde onu b\u0131rakmaya ve almaya gelece\u011fi s\u00f6ylenmeli. T\u00fcm g\u00fcn okulda beklemek \u00e7ocuk a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan ilk 1-2 g\u00fcn d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda sak\u0131ncal\u0131 olabilir. Ebeveynler, \u00e7ocu\u011fun okulda oldu\u011fu s\u0131rada herhangi bir etkinli\u011fe kat\u0131lacaksa bu konu hakk\u0131nda \u00e7ocu\u011fa bilgi verilmemeli, onun yan\u0131nda konu\u015fulmamal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kendisi okuldayken anne ya da babas\u0131n\u0131n e\u011flenece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilir ve okula gitmeyi ceza gibi alg\u0131layabilir. Vedala\u015fmalar uzun s\u00fcrmemeli ve net olunmal\u0131. Gizlice ebeveynler okuldan ayr\u0131lmamal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7ocukta s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131, a\u011flama, sinirlilik, uykusuzluk, ba\u015f a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131, mide bulant\u0131s\u0131, i\u015ftahs\u0131zl\u0131k gibi belirtiler g\u00f6r\u00fclebilir. Tepkiler okul saatleri yakla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda daha da artar. Bu \u015fikayetler en s\u0131k okullar\u0131n a\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 zamanlarda ya\u015fan\u0131r. Okul y\u00f6neticileri, \u00f6\u011fretmen, aile ve rehber \u00f6\u011fretmen e\u015fli\u011finde g\u00fcvene dayal\u0131 bilirki\u015fi kurularak gerilim azalt\u0131labilir. Alt\u0131ndan kalk\u0131lamazsa, istikrarl\u0131 ve \u015fiddetle devam ederse bir uzmandan destek al\u0131nabilir.”<\/p>\n
“\u00c7ocu\u011fun ya\u015f\u0131na uygun sorumluluk verilmeli”<\/p>\n
\u201c\u00c7ocuk do\u011fdu\u011fu andan itibaren gerekli olan geli\u015fimine uygun olan sosyal beceri ve \u00f6z bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayabilir\u201d diyen G\u00fcn Namal, bu geli\u015fim s\u00fcre\u00e7leri hakk\u0131nda, “Oyun \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndan okul \u00e7a\u011f\u0131na ge\u00e7mekte olan \u00e7ocuk, ge\u00e7mi\u015f geli\u015fim d\u00f6nemlerinde geli\u015fimine uygun sorumluluklar\u0131 \u00fcstlenememi\u015fse onun i\u00e7in okula ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 ve sonras\u0131 s\u00fcre\u00e7 stresli ge\u00e7ebilir. 4 ya\u015f\u0131ndan itibaren sorumluluk bilinci geli\u015ftirilmeli. Oyuncaklar\u0131n\u0131 toplamak, el-y\u00fcz y\u0131kama, di\u015f f\u0131r\u00e7alama gibi baz\u0131 sorumluluklar\u0131 yerine getirebilir. Mutfa\u011fa barda\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6t\u00fcrebilir ya da yata\u011f\u0131 toplarken yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir. Kendi ba\u015flar\u0131na giyinip soyunmay\u0131 becerebilmeli, okula, servise yeti\u015fme gibi zamana ba\u011fl\u0131 aktivitelerin bilincinde olmal\u0131, gere\u011fini yapabilmelidirler. Giyinip soyunmas\u0131, yeme\u011fini yemesi i\u00e7in yeterli zaman\u0131 sa\u011flay\u0131p, bu sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131 yapmas\u0131na f\u0131rsat vermelisiniz. Haz\u0131rl\u0131klar\u0131 son dakikalara b\u0131rak\u0131p, ge\u00e7 kalmas\u0131n diyerek \u2018bu sefer de ben giydireyim, ben yedireyim\u2019 derseniz bu becerilerin kazan\u0131m\u0131 ge\u00e7 ya\u015flara kayacakt\u0131r. Bu ya\u015flarda evcil bir hayvan\u0131n bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 \u00fcstlenip, sorumlulu\u011funu alabilir. Odas\u0131n\u0131, masas\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fczenli tutmak, yard\u0131ms\u0131z banyo yapmak gibi eylemler 8-9 ya\u015f \u00e7ocu\u011funun sorumluluklar\u0131ndand\u0131r. 8-12 ya\u015f aral\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u00e7ocuklar okulla ilgili t\u00fcm sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131 alabilmelidir. Uyarmadan derslerini yapmal\u0131, okul saatinin bilincinde olmal\u0131d\u0131r” ifadelerini kulland\u0131.<\/p>\n
12-13 ya\u015flar\u0131nda ise \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n okulla ilgili t\u00fcm g\u00f6revlerini tek ba\u015f\u0131na y\u00fcr\u00fctebilece\u011fini s\u00f6yleyen G\u00fcn Namal, \u201c\u00c7ocuk bu ya\u015flarda sinema, tiyatro, k\u00fct\u00fcphane gibi ortamlarda nas\u0131l davran\u0131laca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmeli, arkada\u015flar\u0131yla buralara gidebilmeli, ufak tefek al\u0131\u015fveri\u015fleri yapabilmelidir. \u0130lgilerini ke\u015ffetmi\u015f olmal\u0131, kendine uygun hobileri yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r\u201d diye konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u00d6ZEL \u00dcM\u0130T HASTANES\u0130 PS\u0130KOLOGU PS\u0130KOLOG SEDA G\u00dcN NAMAL<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14,20],"tags":[14433,17139,5349,19316,18210,106934],"class_list":["post-1305234","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-saglik","category-turkiye","tag-alan","tag-basariyi","tag-cocuklar","tag-okulda","tag-sorumluluk","tag-yakaliyor"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1305234","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1305234"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1305234\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1305234"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1305234"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1305234"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}