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Adana Dr. Ekrem Tok Ruh Sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve Hastal\u0131klar\u0131 Hastanesi\u2019nde g\u00f6revli Psikolog G\u00fcrdal G\u00f6rhan, hayat\u0131m\u0131za internetin girmesiyle birlikte yaln\u0131zca \u00e7ocuklar de\u011fil anne ve babalar\u0131n da bu durumdan olumsuz etkilendi\u011fini s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocuklarda internetle \u00e7ok fazla zaman ge\u00e7irme ebeveynlerin s\u0131kl\u0131kla \u015fikayet etti\u011fi bir konu haline geldi\u011fini belirten G\u00f6rhan, \u201cAnne babalar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n daha \u00e7ok \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n oynad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7evrim i\u00e7i bilgisayar oyunlar\u0131ndan rahats\u0131z olduklar\u0131n\u0131 ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n ekran kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda ge\u00e7irdikleri s\u00fcrenin abart\u0131l\u0131 oldu\u011funu ifade etmektedirler. Bu durumu \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla payla\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131nda ise \u00e7ocuklar\u0131ndan \u201cDaha az \u00f6nce oturdum, be\u015f dakika oldu\u201c t\u00fcr\u00fcnden cevaplar almaktad\u0131r” dedi.<\/p>\n
Her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn daha fazla olmak \u00fczere anne babalar\u0131n ak\u015famlar\u0131 eve geldiklerinde ekran kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na ge\u00e7tiklerini s\u00f6yleyen G\u00f6rhan, “Sosyal payla\u015f\u0131m siteleri \u00f6ncelikli olmak \u00fczere yeti\u015fkinlerinde oynayaca\u011f\u0131 oyunlar ebeveynlerin ilgisini \u00e7ekmektedir. Ayn\u0131 \u00e7ocuklarda oldu\u011fu gibi yeti\u015fkinlerde de internette belli sayfalara d\u00fczenli ve uzun s\u00fcreli girilmektedir. \u0130li\u015fkilerini, zevklerini, ya\u015fam olaylar\u0131n\u0131 oradan payla\u015fmakta, ayn\u0131 zamanda aksatmadan sanal ortamdaki arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131 oradan takip etme ihtiyac\u0131 hissetmektedirler” diye konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n
Bu durumun aileye ayr\u0131lan kaliteli zaman\u0131 azaltt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, ayn\u0131 zamanda insani duygular\u0131n tamam\u0131na yak\u0131n\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7o\u011funlukla sanal ortamda g\u00f6sterilmesine yol a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ifade eden G\u00f6rhan, \u015f\u00f6yle devam etti:<\/p>\n
“Arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir e\u015fyay\u0131 sosyal payla\u015f\u0131m sitesinde g\u00f6rerek k\u0131skanan ebeveyn klavye ba\u015f\u0131nda duygu gelgitleri ya\u015fayabilmektedir. Belirli saatlerde oynamas\u0131 gereken sanal oyunlar i\u00e7in gece yar\u0131s\u0131 uykudan kalkarak ekran ba\u015f\u0131nda meyve sulayan anne babalar vard\u0131r. T\u00fcm ailenin bir arada oldu\u011fu saatlerde ekrana mahkum olan anne babalar\u0131n zaman i\u00e7erisinde yaln\u0131zca sanal ortamda bir hayat\u0131 ger\u00e7e\u011fine tercih etme riski olu\u015fmaktad\u0131r. \u00dcstelik bunu yaparken \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n bilgisayar ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131na olumsuz katk\u0131da bulunduklar\u0131n\u0131 unutmamal\u0131d\u0131rlar. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131na \u201cHaydi dersin ba\u015f\u0131na\u201d diyen anne babalar \u201cBakal\u0131m d\u00fcn sayfama koydu\u011fum foto\u011fraf\u0131m ka\u00e7 be\u011feni alm\u0131\u015f\u201d diyerek ekran ba\u015f\u0131na ko\u015fu\u015fturuyorlarsa aile ve toplumun gelece\u011fi i\u00e7in b\u00fcy\u00fck riskler s\u00f6z konusudur. Ger\u00e7e\u011fin yerini sanal, s\u00f6z\u00fcn yerini klavye, duygunun yerini bilgisayar ifadelerinin ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 aile ortamlar\u0131nda ebeveynlerin bir an \u00f6nce ekranla ili\u015fkilerini makul ve kendi ruh sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile aile i\u00e7i ileti\u015fimi korumaya y\u00f6nelik d\u00fczenlemesi \u00f6n ko\u015fuldur. Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ailelerin kayna\u011f\u0131 sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ebeveynlerdir. Bilgisayar\u0131n kontrol\u00fcnde bir hayat yerine kontroll\u00fc bilgisayar sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 oland\u0131r.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
ADANA DR. EKREM TOK RUH SA\u011eLI\u011eI VE HASTALIKLARI HASTANES\u0130’NDE G\u00d6REVL\u0130 PS\u0130KOLOG G\u00dcRDAL G\u00d6RHAN, HAYATIMIZA \u0130NTERNET\u0130N G\u0130RMES\u0130YLE B\u0130RL\u0130KTE YALNIZCA \u00c7OCUKLAR DE\u011e\u0130L ANNE VE BABALARIN DA BU DURUMDAN OLUMSUZ ETK\u0130LEND\u0130\u011e\u0130N\u0130 S\u00d6YLED\u0130.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14,20],"tags":[13775,14399,26491,14448,711,16919],"class_list":["post-143511","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-saglik","category-turkiye","tag-aileye","tag-ayrilan","tag-azaltti","tag-bagimliligi","tag-internet","tag-zamani"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/143511","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=143511"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/143511\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=143511"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=143511"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=143511"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}