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Diyanet \u0130\u015fleri Ba\u015fkan\u0131 Prof. Dr. Ali Erba\u015f, medyan\u0131n aile \u00fczerindeki olumsuz etkilerine dikkat \u00e7ekerek, \u201cMahremiyeti hi\u00e7e sayan, \u015fiddete te\u015fvik eden, gayrime\u015fru ili\u015fkileri \u00f6zendiren, sadakati \u00f6nemsizle\u015ftiren, sorumluluk duygusunu hi\u00e7e sayan yay\u0131nlar aileyi tahrip etmektedir\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
Diyanet \u0130\u015fleri Ba\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n Aile ve Dini Rehberlik B\u00fcrolar\u0131 ve Merkezlerinde g\u00f6revlendirilen personele y\u00f6nelik d\u00fczenlenen hizmet i\u00e7i e\u011fitim, Diyanet \u0130\u015fleri Ba\u015fkan\u0131 Prof. Dr. Ali Erba\u015f\u2019\u0131n verdi\u011fi ilk dersle ba\u015flad\u0131. Din Hizmetleri Genel M\u00fcd\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnce online olarak d\u00fczenlenen e\u011fitimin ilk dersini veren Erba\u015f, hizmet i\u00e7i e\u011fitim program\u0131n\u0131n hay\u0131rlara vesile olmas\u0131 niyaz\u0131nda bulunarak, program\u0131n haz\u0131rlanmas\u0131nda eme\u011fi ge\u00e7enlere ve e\u011fitime kat\u0131lanlara te\u015fekk\u00fcr etti. Erba\u015f, insan\u0131n yery\u00fcz\u00fc ser\u00fcveninin Hz. Adem ve e\u015fi Havva ile bir aile olarak ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ifade ederek, \u201cRabbimiz, ayn\u0131 hedefe y\u00fcr\u00fcyen, ayn\u0131 emeli b\u00fcy\u00fcten, ayn\u0131 erdemleri y\u00fccelten, ayn\u0131 ideallerle hayata bakan bir b\u00fct\u00fcn olabilmek i\u00e7in bizlere aile olmay\u0131 emretmi\u015f, hatta Kur\u2019an-\u0131 Kerim\u2019de ge\u00e7en Ved\u00fbd ismi celilinden meveddet gibi kat\u0131ks\u0131z ve kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ks\u0131z bir sevgiyi, varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n bir delili olarak aileye l\u00fctfetmi\u015ftir\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
Ailenin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda say\u0131s\u0131z hikmetler bar\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dile getiren Erba\u015f, \u201cAile; sevgi, merhamet, sadakat, adalet ve ihsan gibi temel de\u011ferler \u00fczerine in\u015fa edildi\u011finde insan\u0131n sekinet buldu\u011fu, g\u00fcvende oldu\u011fu, korunakl\u0131 bir yuvaya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fecektir\u201d de\u011ferlendirmesinde bulundu.<\/p>\n
\u201cAile bir medeniyet n\u00fcvesidir\u201d<\/p>\n
Prof. Dr. Erba\u015f, ailenin bireyin kimlik ve ki\u015fili\u011finin olu\u015ftu\u011fu en temel e\u011fitim oca\u011f\u0131 oldu\u011funu belirterek, \u201cBu ocak bir milletin haf\u0131zas\u0131n\u0131 istikbale ta\u015f\u0131yan, inanc\u0131n\u0131, k\u00fclt\u00fcrel de\u011ferlerini, miras\u0131n\u0131, gelecek nesillere aktaran bir k\u00f6pr\u00fcd\u00fcr. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla bir milletin kaim ve daim olmas\u0131n\u0131n yolu sorumluluk sahibi ahlaki erdemlerle bezenmi\u015f muhkem bir aile yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n in\u015fa edilmesi ile m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. Aile bu anlamda bir medeniyet n\u00fcvesidir ve bu n\u00fcve ayn\u0131 zamanda toplumun mihenk ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131r\u201d diye konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n
Erba\u015f, bug\u00fcn bireysel, sosyal ya da k\u00fcresel boyutta ya\u015fanan b\u00fct\u00fcn s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131n ya da g\u00fczelliklerin aileyle bir ili\u015fkisinin oldu\u011funa dikkat \u00e7ekerek, \u201cDolay\u0131s\u0131yla daha iyi bir hayat i\u00e7in muhta\u00e7 oldu\u011fumuz temel de\u011ferler \u00f6ncelikle ailede hayat bulacak, oradan topluma ve d\u00fcnyaya huzur katacakt\u0131r\u201d ifadelerini kulland\u0131.<\/p>\n
\u201cY\u00fcce dinimiz ailede e\u015flerin birbirine g\u00fcven duymas\u0131n\u0131 ve ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k g\u00f6stermesini emretmektedir\u201d<\/p>\n
Ailede fedak\u00e2rl\u0131k ve sorumluluk bilincinin egemen olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011finin alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7izen Erba\u015f, \u015f\u00f6yle devam etti:<\/p>\n
\u201cD\u00fcnya ve ahiret saadeti i\u00e7in bizlere yol g\u00f6steren y\u00fcce dinimiz ailede fedak\u00e2rl\u0131\u011f\u0131n, sorumluluk bilincinin, isti\u015farenin, kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 yard\u0131mla\u015fma, sayg\u0131 ve anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n h\u00e2kim k\u0131l\u0131nmas\u0131n\u0131; e\u015flerin birbirine g\u00fcven duymas\u0131n\u0131 ve ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k g\u00f6stermesini; sevin\u00e7, keder, yorgunluk ve s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131n payla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131, ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan birtak\u0131m problemler kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda sab\u0131rl\u0131 ve anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 davran\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 emretmektedir. Nitekim Y\u00fcce Rabbimiz, \u2019Evlere girdi\u011finiz zaman birbirinize Allah kat\u0131ndan m\u00fcbarek ve ho\u015f bir esenlik dile\u011fi olarak selam verin\u2019 ayet-i kerimesiyle ailenin bir esenlik kayna\u011f\u0131 oldu\u011funa dikkatimizi \u00e7ekmektedir. Her konuda insanl\u0131\u011fa en g\u00fczel \u00f6rnek olan y\u00fcce Peygamberimiz ise, \u2019Sizin en hay\u0131rl\u0131n\u0131z, ailesine kar\u015f\u0131 en hay\u0131rl\u0131 olan\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r. Ben de aileme kar\u015f\u0131 en hay\u0131rl\u0131 olan\u0131n\u0131z\u0131m\u2019 hadis-i \u015ferifiyle bizlere ailede g\u00fczelli\u011fin, iyi davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n, g\u00fcler y\u00fcz ve nezaketin \u00f6nemini hat\u0131rlatmaktad\u0131r.\u201d<\/p>\n
Erba\u015f, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde de\u011ferlerin zay\u0131flamas\u0131ndan en fazla aile kurumunun etkilendi\u011fini ifade ederek, \u201cBencilli\u011fin ve \u00e7\u0131kar ili\u015fkilerinin girdab\u0131 i\u00e7inde huzurun kaybedildi\u011fi, sevginin maddi kayg\u0131lar i\u00e7erisine hapsedildi\u011fi bir d\u00fcnyada \u015f\u00fcphesiz bu durumdan en \u00e7ok aile de\u011ferleri zarar g\u00f6rmekte, sevgi ve rahmetin merkezi olan aile, maalesef \u015fiddet ve nefretin mek\u00e2n\u0131 haline gelmektedir\u201d \u015feklinde konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n
\u201cD\u00fcnyan\u0131n hi\u00e7bir yerinde kendi milletinin de\u011ferlerini y\u0131pratan bir medyan\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclemez\u201d<\/p>\n
Ailelerde ya\u015fanan olumsuzluklar\u0131n zamanla toplumun genel problemleri haline geldi\u011fine ve medyan\u0131n bu konudaki etkisine dikkati \u00e7eken Diyanet \u0130\u015fleri Ba\u015fkan\u0131 Erba\u015f, \u015funlar\u0131 s\u00f6yledi:<\/p>\n
\u201cAile de\u011ferlerimize uygun, ailemizi korumaya ve g\u00fc\u00e7lendirmeye y\u00f6nelik yay\u0131nlar yapmas\u0131 medyan\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck ve ba\u015fta gelen sorumlulu\u011fudur. Esasen, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n hi\u00e7bir yerinde kendi milletinin de\u011ferlerini y\u0131pratan bir medyan\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclemez. Fakat bug\u00fcn aile kurumunun zay\u0131flamas\u0131nda ve ailevi sorunlar\u0131n yayg\u0131nla\u015fmas\u0131nda maalesef medyadaki \u00f6zensiz yay\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00f6nemli bir etkisinin oldu\u011fu a\u00e7\u0131kt\u0131r. Zira olumsuzluklar\u0131 s\u0131radanla\u015ft\u0131ran, mahremiyeti hi\u00e7e sayan, \u015fiddete te\u015fvik eden, gayrime\u015fru ili\u015fkileri \u00f6zendiren, sadakati \u00f6nemsizle\u015ftiren, \u00f6zellikle e\u015fler aras\u0131ndaki sadakati \u00f6nemsizle\u015ftiren, sorumluluk duygusunu hi\u00e7e sayan yay\u0131nlar aileyi tahrip etmektedir. Ayr\u0131ca medeniyetimizden tevar\u00fcs etti\u011fimiz aile ahlak\u0131 ve de\u011ferlerini yozla\u015ft\u0131ran ve y\u0131pratan her t\u00fcrl\u00fc s\u00f6ylem, tav\u0131r ve politika nesillerimize ve gelece\u011fimize en b\u00fcy\u00fck k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yapmaktad\u0131r.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cBo\u015fanmalardaki en b\u00fcy\u00fck sebep sorumsuz ve ilgisiz davranma\u201d<\/p>\n
Bir sorunu \u00e7\u00f6zmek i\u00e7in \u00f6nce sorunun ger\u00e7ek sebeplerini bulmak gerekti\u011fini dile getiren Erba\u015f, \u201cBug\u00fcn T\u00fcrkiye genelinde yap\u0131lan ara\u015ft\u0131rmalara g\u00f6re bo\u015fanmalardaki en b\u00fcy\u00fck sebep sorumsuz ve ilgisiz davranma olarak ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmaktad\u0131r. Hangi a\u00e7\u0131dan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrsek d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim hi\u00e7bir gerek\u00e7e ya da me\u015fgale aile olmay\u0131 ertelemeye ve aileyi ihmal etmeye, ilgisizli\u011fe mazeret olamaz. Hi\u00e7bir meslek ya da hedef aile olmaktan, anne olmaktan daha \u00f6nemli kabul edilemez. Hi\u00e7bir sorumluluk baba olma sorumlulu\u011fundan daha b\u00fcy\u00fck olamaz\u201d diye konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n
Erba\u015f, hayat\u0131n her alan\u0131nda oldu\u011fu gibi ailede de zaman zaman zorluklar, k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar ve gerilimlerin olmas\u0131n\u0131n m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funu belirterek, \u201c\u00d6nemli olan kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131lan s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa yol a\u00e7madan, sab\u0131r, fedak\u00e2rl\u0131k ve adalet duygusuyla a\u015fmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmakt\u0131r. Ailede herhangi bir sorun ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda gerek kad\u0131n, gerekse erkek i\u00e7in ba\u015fvurulacak ilk merci akl-\u0131 selim olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Vicdan, g\u00fczel ahlak, sorumluluk bilinci ve fedak\u00e2rl\u0131k olmal\u0131d\u0131r\u201d ifadelerini kulland\u0131.<\/p>\n
Erba\u015f, aile yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc yitirmekten ve yozla\u015fmaktan koruman\u0131n herkesin ortak ve en temel sorumluluklar\u0131ndan oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlatarak, \u201cDolay\u0131s\u0131yla \u00f6ncelikle ailede hayat bulacak, oradan topluma yay\u0131l\u0131p d\u00fcnyaya huzur katacak iyilikleri ve ahlaki de\u011ferlerini in\u015fa etme ve ya\u015fatma idealini ku\u015fanan herkese \u00f6nemli y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fckler d\u00fc\u015fmektedir\u201d \u015feklinde konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n
\u201cAile ve Dini Rehberlik B\u00fcrolar\u0131n\u0131n hizmetleri hayati bir \u00f6neme sahiptir\u201d<\/p>\n
Diyanet \u0130\u015fleri Ba\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n her alanda millete rehberlik eden bir te\u015fkilat oldu\u011funu ifade eden Erba\u015f, \u015f\u00f6yle devam etti:<\/p>\n
\u201cMilletimizi ailenin \u00f6nemi hakk\u0131nda dini a\u00e7\u0131dan do\u011fru bilgilendirmek, bu alanda manevi destek sunmak Ba\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n sorumluluk alan\u0131na girmektedir. Ba\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, bir taraftan vaaz ve hutbelerle devam eden cami i\u00e7i din hizmetlerinde ahl\u00e2k\u00ee de\u011ferlere y\u00f6nelik vurgusunu s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcrken, di\u011fer taraftan da cami d\u0131\u015f\u0131 din hizmetlerinde bu de\u011ferlerin prati\u011fe d\u00f6n\u00fck y\u00fcz\u00fc ile toplumu tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmay\u0131 hedeflemektedir. Kur\u2019an kurslar\u0131nda y\u0131l i\u00e7inde kad\u0131nlar\u0131, yaz s\u00fcrecinde ise \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 muhatap alan sosyo-k\u00fclt\u00fcrel etkinlikler, ya\u015farken \u00f6\u011frenme ve modelleme yoluyla ahlak geli\u015fimine katk\u0131 sa\u011flamaktad\u0131r. Y\u00fcr\u00fct\u00fclen t\u00fcm bu hizmetler i\u00e7erisinde Aile ve Dini Rehberlik B\u00fcrolar\u0131n\u0131n hizmetleri hayati bir \u00f6neme sahiptir. 81 il ve il\u00e7e m\u00fcft\u00fcl\u00fckleri b\u00fcnyesinde hizmet veren 401 Aile ve Dini Rehberlik B\u00fcrolar\u0131m\u0131z ve burada g\u00f6rev yapan 3 bin 70 hocam\u0131zla ailelerin korunmas\u0131 ve g\u00fc\u00e7lendirilmesi hususunda manevi dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k ve dini rehberlik hizmeti sunmaktay\u0131z.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cEn etkili ir\u015fad\u0131m\u0131z aile ya\u015fant\u0131m\u0131zla \u00f6rnek olmam\u0131zd\u0131r\u201d<\/p>\n
Erba\u015f, aileyi koruyan ve ayakta tutan dini ve ahlaki de\u011ferlerin ya\u015fat\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n kuru bir e\u011fitim m\u00fcfredat\u0131ndan ziyade \u201cg\u00f6n\u00fcl dilini\u201d kullanmay\u0131 ve projeler e\u015fli\u011finde \u201cerdemlerin, faziletlerin” hayata ge\u00e7irilmesine y\u00f6nelik ad\u0131mlar atmay\u0131 gerektirdi\u011fini s\u00f6yledi. Kalplere etki etmek ve ak\u0131llar\u0131 do\u011fruya y\u00f6neltmek i\u00e7in temel dayana\u011f\u0131n Kur\u2019an-\u0131 Kerim ve s\u00fcnnet-i seniyye olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fine i\u015faret eden Erba\u015f, \u015f\u00f6yle konu\u015ftu:<\/p>\n
\u201cElbette s\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc tesirli k\u0131lmak i\u00e7in temel kayna\u011f\u0131m\u0131z Kur\u2019an ve s\u00fcnnet olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bunun yan\u0131nda tabii ki akt\u00fcel bilgiyi de ihmal edemeyiz. Sosyal bilimler, edebiyat, tarih, psikoloji, sosyoloji ve teknoloji, okumalar\u0131m\u0131z bize \u00e7ok farkl\u0131 kazan\u0131mlar sa\u011flayacakt\u0131r. Bilhassa \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z alana dair aile konular\u0131nda okumalar yapman\u0131z sizi \u00e7a\u011f\u0131n ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131na cevap verme ve projeler \u00fcretme noktas\u0131nda g\u00fc\u00e7lendirecektir. Elinizde, masan\u0131zda, g\u00fcndeminizde her daim aileyle ilgili bir kitap, bir ara\u015ft\u0131rma, bir makale olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Sizler aileyle ilgili her \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131, her geli\u015fmeyi takip etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. En etkili ir\u015fad\u0131m\u0131z aile ya\u015fant\u0131m\u0131zla \u00f6rnek olmam\u0131zd\u0131r. Nebev\u00ee bir g\u00f6revi ifa etme sorumlulu\u011funa sahip olanlar\u0131n dikkat etmeleri gereken en \u00f6nemli husus, s\u00f6z\u00fcn en do\u011frusunu ve g\u00fczelini s\u00f6ylemek, ahlak\u0131 ve ya\u015fant\u0131s\u0131 ile de \u00e7evresine en g\u00fczel \u00f6rnek olmakt\u0131r.\u201d<\/p>\n
Ailenin kurulmas\u0131, korunmas\u0131 ve g\u00fc\u00e7lendirilmesine y\u00f6nelik hizmetlerde g\u00f6revlendirilen personelin kat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 e\u011fitimler 4 hafta s\u00fcrecek. A\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u015f program\u0131na 250 personelin yan\u0131 s\u0131ra Din Hizmetleri Genel M\u00fcd\u00fcr\u00fc B\u00fcnyamin Albayrak da kat\u0131ld\u0131.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
D\u0130YANET \u0130\u015eLER\u0130 BA\u015eKANI PROF. DR. AL\u0130 ERBA\u015e, MEDYANIN A\u0130LE \u00dcZER\u0130NDEK\u0130 OLUMSUZ ETK\u0130LER\u0130NE D\u0130KKAT \u00c7EKEREK, \u201cMAHREM\u0130YET\u0130 H\u0130\u00c7E SAYAN, \u015e\u0130DDETE TE\u015eV\u0130K EDEN, GAYR\u0130ME\u015eRU \u0130L\u0130\u015eK\u0130LER\u0130 \u00d6ZEND\u0130REN, SADAKAT\u0130 \u00d6NEMS\u0130ZLE\u015eT\u0130REN, SORUMLULUK DUYGUSUNU H\u0130\u00c7E SAYAN YAYINLAR A\u0130LEY\u0130 TAHR\u0130P ETMEKTED\u0130R.\u201d DED\u0130<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1555563,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,20],"tags":[25416,12853,3449,15511,79612,76507,17501,13894,119360,119359,68954,6692,61199],"class_list":["post-1555562","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-gundem","category-turkiye","tag-aileyi","tag-baskani","tag-diyanet","tag-erbas","tag-etmektedir","tag-gayrimesru","tag-iliskileri","tag-isleri","tag-onemsizlestiren","tag-ozendiren","tag-sadakati","tag-tahrip","tag-yayinlar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1555562","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1555562"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1555562\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1555563"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1555562"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1555562"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1555562"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}